Tuesday, April 14, 2026

Side By Side (Linda 1973)


 Side by Side

By Caroline Boucher

Disc

December 1, 1973


    Linda McCartney, fortunately, is a strong woman, because, though enviable, her position is one that not many people could have taken on and coped as successfully as she has. Looking back now to March 12, 1969, Linda says she never realized quite what she was taking on and how much hatred could ensue.

     "It wasn't as if I was a teeny saying, 'Oh, wow, I married Paul McCartney.' I was independent, with a career, but suddenly people who didn't know the first thing about me started writing things about me, about what sort of person Paul had married. Everyone was suddenly saying, 'Who is she?'

     "When we were in New York making Ram, 20 kids would follow us everywhere we went, everywhere, hotel, restaurant, studio. After a while, I asked them to lay off, and one of them turned and said, 'Well, what the hell did you expect?' I hadn't expected that!"

     Since then, she suffered a great many more slings and arrows. As a musician ("How dare she take up piano in his band?" They cried.) As a songwriter: ("She can't they riposted). As a film star from the TV special, and any other excuses that cropped up. But Linda, admirably, has soldiered on, stubbornly pursuing her rather bizarre taste in clothes and hairstyle, brushing up her piano playing and her songwriting. 

    "At the beginning, people said, 'Oh, good grief, she can't play the piano, and that I wasn't good. But then I hadn't jumped up and down and said, 'Hey, Paul, let me be in your band!' I was there because he had asked me to join. And gradually, I got into it and began to enjoy it.

     "But I could remember crying my eyes out in a dressing room in Europe because I was so scared. Now I know you can get up there and have a good time. Technically, nobody has ever said, 'Do this or do that', but I know chords now, and I know the scale, and so I can work things out and write songs from there.

     "It's like my photography.  Nobody ever told me the technicalities of it, shutter speeds, all that kind of thing; I know instinctively in my head now what works when.  But I just learned by actually getting out and taking the pictures." Linda took the inside poster on the next album, and does most of her photography now with a Polaroid, one of the "cheap, £12  ones." She would still like to do assignments, but since she married Paul, people seem to have stopped regarding her as a professional photographer and stopped asking. Two of the Hendrix poster pictures and one of Warren Beatty are still being sold in a Disc poster ad most weeks. 

    "Warren told me I was the first photographer who had clicked at that right moment. It's very important that-- you can so easily miss it."

     Linda's songwriting is going well. To date, she has written three A sides, including "Seaside Woman" on the album, and the other two have yet to see the light of day. They're called "Wild Prairie" and "Oriental Night Fish." The latter is like a Shangri-La's number with lots of talk over. "Wild Prairie" turned into an 11-minute number, a sort of country and western and jazz blend.

     At the moment, Paul is banned from America because of his drug bust. This is difficult for Linda, who misses her family. And while she and the kids are quite free to go there, she doesn't really want to leave Paul behind. She's anti-Nixon because he doesn't have the interests of the people at heart. Women's Lib, on the whole, passes her by. 

    "I was always lucky. I got amazing jobs because I was a girl. I do think women should get equal pay for jobs, but I don't like the dykey bit that goes with the movement. At the moment, I don't think the women's lib women are really representing the main body of ladies; rather, like Nixon, doesn't represent what the main body of the American people feel."

     Contrary to what a lot of people might think, Linda doesn't have a house overflowing with nannies, cooks, housekeepers, etc. "I've never really thought to live rich. I didn't come from a poor home, but my dad was poor and worked his way up through Harvard Law School. I think I learned a lot from him. He's a very moral man, and my mum is very down to earth. Paul and I just wanted a very close, simple family.

     "The kids come everywhere with us, and Heather, who's 11, really loves the other two, and she can watch them for me on tour. I always put them to bed and give them their dinner, and then somebody watches them for me. I think you could be too doting, too involved. Kids should be independent. I like the wild side of life,  but you've got to have a nucleus of love and security. I'm a bit of a fatalist, really. I play life by ear."

29 comments:

  1. lay off? bit more.

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    1. as far as I recall the ram days in ny no one followed them while they were eating but the unpleasant exchanges that were going on made me wonder who would even buy the lp when it was released

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    2. What are you on about?! RAM reached no1 in the UK charts and stayed for five months in the US top ten. Today the album is considered as one of Paul's finest as a solo. Unpleasant exchanges, LOL 🤔

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    3. 3:45 pm ...you apparently were not there to understand my comment; Paul lost some fans due to nasty verbal exchanges

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    4. The Ram recording sessions were a very difficult time and I know for a fact that Paul lost fans during that itme due to Linda's words. I have read a lot of the stories about what went on and the fans weren't "stalking" them. They were waiting outside the studio but they did that anytime a Beatle was recording somewhere -- and yes -- she should have expected that. I love Linda but I don't like how she treated the fans during this time period.

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    5. My comment was about the album. If it sold so much, how come Paul lost fans during that time? I've heard stories that the fans were stalking them.Yes Linda was cruel to them, but any woman would have eventually lost patience with these girls. Things were bound to change once Paul settled down, and this couple were together 24/7. Then again, Paul must have explained the situation to his wife, and things got better in later years. Keeping in mind that the English media were very cruel to this woman, and the British people didn't like her.

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    6. So Linda was lying about the fans in this interview? I don't think so. Paul losing fans during this time is an esegeration!

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    7. 8:15...sorry but the truth is not always pretty

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    8. Sara S. - Thank you for your 4/20 at 7:28. It seems like some people just don't accept the meet the beatles for real part of this . How different it was in the days of the write thing and harrison alliance...nyc64

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    9. I can't accept the fact that some fans still hate on Linda because of her attitude towards them in the early years. We all make mistakes.

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  2. The fans should have stopped following them. Enough said!

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    1. A form of group stalking,

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    2. in those days fans always followed Paul and the lads just to be able to say hi as it was great to finally see them in person

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  3. Dykey bit? Linda wouldn't dare say such a thing in the present day.
    Or she might understand how long and hard women have fought for equal rights for everyone.

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    1. And how do you know that she didnt understand that?

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    2. If she had a thorough understanding she wouldn't use the term "dykey bit."

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    3. 4/17...she came from a wealthy family - mom & dad- dad always paid the bills when she was regularly at the old Max's and Fillmore and really did not experience the fight for women 's equal rights which we did in the 60"s

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    4. agree w/ 12:24 and 3:48 PM; that dykey bit was a ugly stupid comment

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    5. When I was typing this up, I had to re-read the sentence several times to make sure that is what she was really saying. Seems very uncalled for to me.

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    6. Linda could be just as insensitive as she was kind with this statement. However, I was a bit surprised to see this comment from her. She definitely needed someone who could set her straight on how dismissive this was on her part.

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    7. Meant to say Linda could be just as insensitive as she was kind with this sort of statement. A case of shooting from the hip on her part and then standing there with a smoking gun. At the time the unfortunate exchanges were taking place, a lot of people weren't exactly acting like mature adults. Linda was a grown, experienced woman, a mother, who could have done a better job of deflecting the hostility but went to war instead.
      Years later Linda said she understood and should have talked to the fans instead of acting the way she did. And saying that shows we can all reflect, change our views, and extend some sort of peace offering.

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    8. Reflection and offering peace, yes. And this too: after 50+ years maybe moving on with one's life and stop treating the person like a favorite punching bag.

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    9. Totally agree. Another point which makes my blood boil, is when on other sites, I see comments directed to Paul where he's called nasty/jerk, because he cheated on Jane! 😡

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    10. re 4/24 at 11:31AM ; guess you have never been engaged and cheated on as that would make your blood boil for real

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    11. To keep calling Paul names, after all these years, when he has shown us what a loyal husband and a good father he is?! I call this childish behaviour and immature mentality. Some people need to get on with their lives. Jane did it and has given us all a good example.

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  4. Would like to give a big shout out to the women who read this site for their work and support for equal rights during the 60s, 70s and even today and have had to ignore ignorant *dykey bit* words.

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    1. Oy vey, Sara may I respectfully ask for the comments section to be closed?

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    2. Yes -- I do not have the power to shut down comments. But I can say that I will not approve any more comments under this topic. Such a shame too.

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